The Function of Dysfunction: How Workplace Bullying Sustains Itself
What happens when the person subjected to workplace bullying begins to carry the effects of the dysfunction within the relationship? Drawing on family systems thinking, this article asks what behavior does within the relational system in which it is embedded. When a person is subjected to bullying and abuse, their survival responses and coping mechanisms can become woven into the relationship. Silence, appeasement, vigilance, over-compliance, withdrawal, or taking on more than is reasonable may help the person manage an unsafe situation while also allowing the surrounding system to remain organized around the dysfunction. Over time, the person subjected to the abuse can come to carry its effects, while the behavior that created those responses becomes less visible. The article explores how dysfunction can serve a function within a relational system, how workplaces can adjust around the survival responses of the person being bullied, and how responsibility can shift onto the person with the least power. Read on.
How Deep Culture and Deep Structure Sustain Workplace Bullying
Workplace bullying is often treated as a “personality problem,” yet it persists because it is typically sustained by deeper forces inside organizations. Drawing on Johan Galtung’s (2003) concept of a “deeper layer” beneath visible conflict, this article shows how bullying becomes system-consistent through deep structures (incentives, complaint pathways, risk logic), deep culture (minimization norms and gendered credibility gaps), and repeated violations of basic human needs for safety, dignity, and reality-validation. It also introduces a crucial modern asymmetry: organizations can function as legal “persons” while lacking an embodied moral nervous system, making it easier for harm to be absorbed by employees rather than repaired by the system. Read on.
Women & bullying: Understanding Relational Aggression
Navigating the workplace can be challenging, especially when faced with subtle forms of bullying from colleagues or bosses. Many women encounter relational aggression, characterized by manipulative behaviors that undermine social relationships and self-esteem. Unlike overt bullying, relational aggression often involves covert tactics like gossip, social exclusion, silent treatment, and backhanded compliments. These confusing actions can leave you questioning your perceptions and emotional well-being. Understanding these dynamics is crucial for asserting your place in a professional environment. Learn how to spot relational aggression and how to respond to it.
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